When you meet someone who tries their hardest to stick by you regardless of how difficult you are, keep them. Keep them at all costs because finding someone who cares enough to look past your flaws isn’t something that happens every day.
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Midnight Thoughts (I got lucky with you)

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(Source: reality-escape-artist)

Do you think the universe fights for souls to be together?
Some things are too strange and strong to be coincidences.
- Emery Allen  (via sotypicalme)

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Sometimes people can’t always return the favor of being number one in your life. I get that. But if you’re gonna make someone feel like they’re number one, you sure as hell better make it all or nothing. Don’t let them drift. When you say hey, it’s you. I want you. I want to see you and be with you, it’s you.
For Gods sake be a man and stick to your word. If you make her feel like number one, prove it. Again and again and again.
And if not… If things change and for some reason someone else takes that spot or maybe your feelings just changed. There’s a million reasons that could explain why things change, but if they change, let her know. Be honest. Communicate.
How many girls are you going to have to love before you realize that love is effort. Love. Is. Effort. You can’t just sit and expect things to happen to you. Relationships take effort and consistency.
So wake up. And stop hurting the people who love you with their whole self

1. We met in the waiting room of our therapists office. He told me that orchids symbolize death and stuck one behind my ear. I kissed him too hard and my mother asked me why the scent of liquor was hanging off all my clothes. 8 months later I left white oleanders on his grave. They’re poisonous. I think we were too.

2. He drove too fast and I played music too loud and kissed him while he drove. We were our own accident waiting to happen. We almost drowned one night when we fell into a lake in the middle of winter. When we fell in love. He left me a note telling me that being with me was like being alone. I deleted his number but kept it written down in the back of my old social studies notebook from middle school. I have called him 8 times since then.

3. God, I would’ve fucking died for him. In a few ways, I did.

4. He fucked someone else because he hated the way my scars would split open and bleed all over my clothes. I took a lot of pictures of him. They’re still in my attic. I tried to burn them once but my hair caught fire instead.

5. I never knew his middle name. He spoke in poetry and choked down cigarettes and never answered my calls. I held his hand too tightly. He would climb in my window and fall asleep next to me. I think he had nightmares most nights. My mother found out he was staying over and kicked him out. Everything stopped smelling like him. I hate it.

6. We tried to run away but we were only 16 and we weren’t allowed to buy train tickets so we took a bus but I got sick halfway and threw up my parent’s worried voicemails. He took me to some shitty motel and let me sleep while he went out to buy drugs. We went home and never saw each other again.

7. He would touch my best friend’s thigh under the table when we all went out. I pretended not to notice. He pretended to love me.

8. We wrote each other love letters and he cut my hair to my shoulders. He tasted like coffee with two packets of sugar because that’s all he drank. He was still tired all the time. I wish I could’ve woken him up. My hair is down to my waist now. I can’t remember the sound of his voice.

9. I’m not sure if I ever even loved him. I’m think I might’ve been so in love with him. He lived next door. Our mothers hated each other. When he was 6 he pulled the flowers out of the garden in our backyard. When we turned 17 he followed me home from school and kissed me. He would wipe away my tears when I cried. And then a new girl showed up at school and he started taking a different route home. He pulled all the flowers out of my fucking garden.

- 9 boys my mother warned me not to kiss  (via extrasad)